Section 7: Unforgiving Spirit – What are they bitteror angry about?

Key questions to ask: Have you ever been hurt deeply? What happened? What is your relationship with that person like now? Do you find it easy or hard to forgive someone who does you wrong? When was the last time you asked someone’s forgiveness? What happened? If you wrong someone and ask God’s forgiveness, do you think you need to … Read More

Section 8: Relationships: How do they perceive and treat others?

Key questions to ask: Are you dating anyone? Tell me about him or her. What do you like or dislike? What do you normally do on a date? (Be prepared to be lied to) What is the sure thing that’s going to be true about the person you will one day marry? Around school, what is the biggest pressure when … Read More

Section 9: Eternal Values – What are they worshipping/pursuing?

Jesus spoke often of eternal values (Matt. 6:33).  Learning to deny our temporal desires and feeding our eternal desires is critical to spiritual maturity. Key questions to ask: Outside of school, where do you spend the most of your time? Doing what? How often are you on social media? Texting? With whom? What kinds of things do you write about? What … Read More